Recently blog-hopped to alot of MTB(s) website, Saw that mostly everyone of them have a post up about how they found out about their Pregnancy, actually since long time back i've seen some of their website writing about it. But it've never crossed my mind to write one too, but i find it very interesting so i decided to write about mine too.
Actually mine isn't any special, kinda simple & everything too.
Here it goes .......

It's the first day of CNY if i didn't remember wrongly, My period had not knocked on my door yet, thinking that it's normal as my Period is kinda irregularly as always. But i kept having the instinct in me telling me that something is not right that my period had not knocked on my door .. But still, i did not bother & ditch this instinct aside thinking maybe i've think too much. And at that time i did not mention anything to Hubby as he's super busy with his lion dance activities during CNY period. And i was busy going to my relatives place & my grandmom's for dinner etcetc. On the second day of CNY, went to my Big Uncle's condo @ bukit timah for reunion lunch. Took photos etcetc, i was wearing a dress that Hubby bought for me as V.day gift. Then i took photo with my Grandpa, the photographer was my sister. Then after taking the photo she said " Eh look, Stephanie took the photo with Ahgong. She looked like she's pregnant! Hahaha " Then i was like " Wtf, don't anyhow talk leh. Where got look like pregnant!? " Then my mom also asked my Sister not to anyhow talk, lol. Then my instinct kept haunting me lah, but i kept telling myself is i think too much etcetc.
After all the visiting on the first few days of CNY, i went to joined Hubby & his lion dance troupe in the lion dance activities. My period still had not reached me, i got more & more worried. But aside from that i kept repeating the same thing to myself, & told myself maybe it's only late lah. Maybe it's coming soon as i experience some cramps in my tummy alrd. Then on the 18th, i finally cannot hold it anymore & tell one of Hubby's Lion Dance troupe-mate's wife(AhZhen) about it. She asked me to buy a pregnancy kit to test it to be safe, be it my period is late or be it i'm really pregnant. In the beginning, i think that it's not necessary to test .. But after much thinking, I decided to buy a kit to test. When the lorry stopped @ one of the kiosk stop to pump petrol, She helped me to get a pregnancy kit. Then after we went back to SLT, She went into the toilet with me. & i tested, then we waited awhile for the result .. She was holding onto the kit, & i was standing behind her .. Then suddenly she back facing me say " Eh Shufen, idk whether i should congrats you or what leh " Then she turned to face me & showed me the kit, Beside this solid red line, beside was another faint red line .. At that point of time, my heart sunk .. Suddenly i was speechless, my mind went blank. Then the first thing that came into my mind was " Omfg, how am i gonna tell my mom? " After that i went out blurly with her, then i showed the kit to Hubby. Ahzhen asked us to have a good talk. Then when i showed the kit to Hubby, he showed no reaction-.- he just asked " How? " Then i was like irritated alr " How? You ask me how i know ah? " Lol. Then after that he like smiled, then went into the Office @ Slt. Saw one of those baby bites packaging, then he say " Keep, we'll need it soon " Then idk what to say .. Went to a clinic to confirm, & the results is the same .. Hubby called his Father to inform him about it .. & i still dk how to break the news to my Mom. The first person i called to tell is FionaTan. She's so fucking happy -.- And i break the news to my Momma at night, in the beginning she can't accept it .. My Sister even told me my mom went into her room & told her, then my mom broke down crying. And i know, i broke my mom's heart terribly. In the beginning, abortion came into my mind.. But Hubby shows signs that he wanted to keep the baby .. After much discussion, i decided to keep too. Afterall, it's my baby too. We created this mess, we can't be so irresponsible to end it's life like this. Momma broke the news to my Sil & my brother , & lastly my Father. & Surprisely, i thought my father would be extremely angry but instead he did not get angry. He just said " how? Married lah, couldn't be ask her abort what. Later abort alrd not good for her body, somemore her health not so good one " & ya, in the end Hubby's parents came over to my place to talk about the days to marry & everything ..
And we got married on the 10th April 2010.

Ok, super long post i know. Didn't know why the hell my blogpost always looked so long.
Damn.

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